Boys. They’re infuriating, clueless, reasons for most girls’ pain. So why, if they are so useless, is it that we keep running back to them, give them the time of day, or waste tub after tub of Ben and Jerry’s just getting over them? Because when you get a good catch it is worth all the trouble and trauma. You feel you have someone to talk to that listens, someone to look in their eyes tell them you love them and mean it. Someone to share jokes, stories and love with. There are fights, of course, but really, at the end of the day he’s still there to even it out and watch your favourite movies, smiling a lopsided smile at you the whole time. He holds you in your arms, and (maybe it’s over exaggerating) you feel like you are all that matters. Quirks, mystery and open eyes draw you in, but what is there to let you go? There’s enough Ben and Jerry’s for the rest of the world, and although it patches things up, there’s still the fact you’d take him back if you could. So that’s why we ‘waste’ our time with them, flirting, smiling, waving, but really it isn’t a waste is it? Those who have had it, don’t regret it, those who haven’t want it. So keep checking up and sharing. Love always.